Every class has
students who play certain roles. You have your class clown, your queen
bee - the one everyone wants to be friends with, a rebel without a cause, shy
students, plus a few other roles. When I went through my training in
undergrad, I was taught strategies to use with discipline problems,
gifted students, English as a Second Language Learners, but I don't
remember having a professor discuss ways to meet the needs of shy children.
Shy students were always a welcome addition to
my class. Probably because I had plenty of Chatty Cathy's in my class, so
a few quiet ones help balance out the noise level. There are a few things
I've found through the years that helped my shy students come out of their
shell:
*BEGINNING OF THE DAY: Greet them when they come in the room with a
simple, "Good Morning!" Do not ask them questions, get in their
personal space, or push them to talk to you. For very shy children, it
will be baby steps. They may acknowledge your greeting by shaking their
head, smiling at you, making eye contact, and eventually whispering hello.
It is a slow process. Give them time to warm up to you.
*COOPERATIVE LEARNING: During cooperative learning activities, pair shy
students with students who are a little bit more outgoing. But do not
pair them with a student who is over-the-top outgoing. These students
will overwhelm your shy ones.
*FOSTERING FRIENDSHIPS: Ask shy students to run errands for you at the
beginning of the year and send them with a buddy. These quick trips give
them a few minutes to get to know a buddy and hopefully make a new friend.
*LUNCH & RECESS: With primary grades, the first few weeks of
school, we draw names out of the bucket. I have a bucket of boy names and
a bucket of girl names. I draw 2 names out at a time. These 2 students are
buddies for 2 days. They sit by each other at lunch and play together at
recess. They can play with other buddy pairs, but they have to stay
together for 2 days. Every other day I would draw names again. By
the end of two weeks, each student has been a buddy with 5 students.
Hopefully, they will "click" with one of the five
students that they have been paired with. **Please note: I draw two names, I do not draw
one name and let a student choose a buddy. We've all had an experience
once or twice in our life when we were the last one chosen. Why give your
students that experience?
*INSTRUCTION TIME: Call on shy students when they either raise
their hand or when you know the subject is their strength. Overtime, they
will build confidence by sharing when they have the correct answer and take
more risks to share during other lessons.
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